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A shy and introvert guide: talking to people is a skill you can learn
Timid is a calm shy and introvert guide for people who find conversation hard. Find words for awkward moments, practise at your own pace, and build confidence one small conversation at a time.
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Start a conversation
Openers, questions and small talk ideas you can use today.
Questions to Get to Know Someone: 100+ Great Ideas
The best questions to get to know someone are open, personal enough to be interesting and safe enough to answer. Start with…
Introvert life
Work, relationships and social energy, explained plainly.
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Build confidence
Small habits that make social situations easier over time.
How to Make Friends as an Adult: 15 Easy Ways
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Safe topics for when your mind goes blank.
Introvert vs Extrovert Test
Twelve quick questions, no labels attached.
This or That Questions
Pick one of two. A light game that gets people talking.
Common questions
Is shyness the same as being introverted?
No. Shyness is fear of social judgement. Introversion is a preference for quieter settings and time alone. A person can be either, both or neither.
Can shy people really become confident?
Yes. Confidence grows with practice. Small, repeated steps work better than forcing yourself into big situations.
What if I run out of things to say?
Ask an open question and listen for something to follow up on. Silence for a few seconds is normal and usually feels longer to you than to them.
Is Timid a substitute for therapy?
No. Timid offers general information only. If anxiety affects your daily life, please speak with a qualified professional.
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